Where the True Happiness Lies ?

No doubt it’s a big question for human now a days, that how to find "Happiness" and where it exist ? People struggle hard to find happiness.

They run after it and try to find it everywhere.

Sometime they got succeed, but soon they got disappointed that it's not the thing they are looking for.

They also feel bad when they did not satisfied themselves with a little quantity of happiness.

They expect it in large amount to ease themselves and also want the same in future.

Ideologically It's not that much easy to find happiness when there is a lot of factors affecting todays living.

And become more difficult when we are sounded with emotional bounds, we have families and social existence.

So coming to the point where happiness lies ?

Where we would find it ?

Why we did not get perceived value of happiness?

And what if we did not get it that way we are looking for ?

And what are the consequences for being hurt by the results ?

Majority of people are unable to define these points and also unable to take proper initiatives to satisfy themselves and live a happy life.

The first factor effecting this discovery is " Personal Attributes".

People have various common and uncommon habits which are some time same geographically or globally, but at same time they are totally different from others.

People like friends and want to be friend of somebody, but they did not like to share their privacy to on whole.

They want to limit themselves to just some loyal ones not to every one.

They are hiding most of them from others but showing a lot to a single person.

The most interesting part is these special ones are may be a family member or may be a total stranger.

They show their trust to a person with unknown background but sometime unable to trust over their family with whom they spent whole life.

The second factor is " Relational Binding"

People got bind with relations too soon and dramatically hurt faster. They show trust to someone and soon they totally get strange to that person due to lack of mental equality.

This factor bring a huge amount of stress which become a permanent problem with passage of time.

They can not go through this breakdown of relations and unable to accept such conditions with openness so they become worried about their social existence . Sometime they separate themselves and also try to hurt themselves for the pain brings by others.

The third factor the major one is "Money"

Yes! No doubt, most of human thinks that money can bring happiness to their lives. Up to some extent it's true but not completely. It’s a universal thought that you can buy everything with money like as luxuries, goods and services. Although it’s not true that you can also buy someone's trust with money or his/her love with money.

Money can buy just things not people. Money is commanding factor but not everywhere.

Relations cannot be build on empire of money.

As per researcher it's find that money damage relations and growing lust of self fulfillers. People focus more on they ways to earn money and stay concerned with their financial stability. They forget that they are husband/wife of some one, father/mother of kids, and have some friends from school.

As per my point of view, "happiness" is living with us, it's our inner part, it is the essence of soul and purity of thoughts just like a kid. Just like a kid with out any judgment of relations without and profit lose . Just being positive not with only those persons which are linked with us, but for those who are finding their happiness from us.

Being happy means to keep other happy to care for people which loves us. With out any profit and lost without and idea of being hurt.

So finding happiness means "First give it to others as they are also finding it from you".