No doubt it’s a big
question for human now a days, that how to find "Happiness" and where
it exist ? People struggle hard to find happiness.
They run after it
and try to find it everywhere.
Sometime they got succeed, but soon they got disappointed that it's not the thing they are looking for.
Sometime they got succeed, but soon they got disappointed that it's not the thing they are looking for.
They also feel bad
when they did not satisfied themselves with a little quantity of happiness.
They expect it in
large amount to ease themselves and also want the same in future.
Ideologically It's
not that much easy to find happiness when there is a lot of factors affecting
todays living.
And become more
difficult when we are sounded with emotional bounds, we have families and
social existence.
So coming to the
point where happiness lies ?
Where we would find
it ?
Why we did not get
perceived value of happiness?
And what if we did
not get it that way we are looking for ?
And what are the
consequences for being hurt by the results ?
Majority of people
are unable to define these points and also unable to take proper initiatives to
satisfy themselves and live a happy life.
The first factor
effecting this discovery is " Personal Attributes".
People have various
common and uncommon habits which are some time same geographically or globally,
but at same time they are totally different from others.
People like friends
and want to be friend of somebody, but they did not like to share their privacy
to on whole.
They want to limit
themselves to just some loyal ones not to every one.
They are hiding most
of them from others but showing a lot to a single person.
The most interesting
part is these special ones are may be a family member or may be a total
stranger.
They show their
trust to a person with unknown background but sometime unable to trust over
their family with whom they spent whole life.
The second factor is
" Relational Binding"
People got bind with
relations too soon and dramatically hurt faster. They show trust to someone and
soon they totally get strange to that person due to lack of mental equality.
This factor bring a
huge amount of stress which become a permanent problem with passage of time.
They can not go
through this breakdown of relations and unable to accept such conditions with
openness so they become worried about their social existence . Sometime they
separate themselves and also try to hurt themselves for the pain brings by
others.
The third factor the
major one is "Money"
Yes! No doubt, most
of human thinks that money can bring happiness to their lives. Up to some
extent it's true but not completely. It’s a universal thought that you can buy
everything with money like as luxuries, goods and services. Although it’s not
true that you can also buy someone's trust with money or his/her love with
money.
Money can buy just
things not people. Money is commanding factor but not everywhere.
Relations cannot be
build on empire of money.
As per researcher
it's find that money damage relations and growing lust of self fulfillers.
People focus more on they ways to earn money and stay concerned with their
financial stability. They forget that they are husband/wife of some one,
father/mother of kids, and have some friends from school.
As per my point of
view, "happiness" is living with us, it's our inner part, it is the
essence of soul and purity of thoughts just like a kid. Just like a kid with
out any judgment of relations without and profit lose . Just being positive not
with only those persons which are linked with us, but for those who are finding
their happiness from us.
Being happy means to
keep other happy to care for people which loves us. With out any profit and
lost without and idea of being hurt.
So finding happiness
means "First give it to others as they are also finding it from you".
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